You Don't Have to be Perfect to Adopt

At Radis Adoptions, we understand that the thought of “marketing” yourself toward birth mothers may seem scary, degrading and maybe even confusing. We know that self-promotion makes many people feel nervous and self-conscious. Many prospective adoptive parents get worried and ask themselves questions such as:

• “What if we're not pretty enough?”
• “What if our house isn't big enough or in the right location?”
• “What if we don't make enough money?”

If you and your spouse have asked these questions, you aren't alone. Many prospective adoptive parents find themselves asking these questions and many other similar ones. You should rest easy, though. It is extremely rare for birth moms to place a huge importance on how much money you have or what kind of home you live in. Typically, the birth mother and birth family will be more concerned about whether you and your spouse seem loving, caring, and nurturing. This is what really matters in the minds of women experiencing unplanned or unexpected pregnancy.

When it comes to promoting yourself to birth moms, it's important to just be yourself. This is what will make you most attractive. Birth mothers don't want to work with couples who are stuffy and act as if they are full of themselves. Just be your natural, caring, loving, and fun self and you'll be just fine.

Please contact Radis Adoptions for more details about how to promote yourself to birth mothers and we'll be more than delighted to help you!