Reasons to Choose Adoption For Your Unborn Child
A typical response to an unplanned pregnancy is usually to think you have only two options: Raise the baby on your own or have an abortion. Another choice and perhaps the kindest choice is adoption. When you first fully grasp you're pregnant, it's normal to feel forced to make a decision without delay about what to do. There isn't any reason to rush into a choice you might not be ready to live with. You've got more time to decide than you think.
You've got three choices. One of these will be the very best decision for you. But to make the best choice for you, you must think about all three options, not merely one or two. Abortion is really a final decision that simply leaves no space for error. As soon as it's done, there is no chance to reconsider. You might rush into a decision to abort when in fact that might not be the best option for you.
Some women "just know" that abortion isn't for them but the birth father is encouraging abortion. With abortion, no one is the winner. Frequently, the boyfriend just would like the "problem" to disappear - and fast. He has no desire to have a baby in his life. Having a baby would hinder how he spends his days and his nights. Having a baby would pressure him into personal and financial obligations he doesn't want. Having a youngster would make another person the main focus of your attention instead of him!
Women who have had an abortion are sad and frequently filled with regret their entire life. It becomes an unfilled hole in their hearts that never heals. It's an especially unpleasant regret because it was a choice they made. Abortion isn't an accident that happens to you that isn't your fault. A woman who decides on abortion takes full responsibility for the choice. And, when there is regret, it hurts for life.
If you think about parenting your little one, think about all of your resources very carefully. Your time and effort, your energy, your emotional availability, your financial resources and loved ones willing and able to help you. A new mother requires plenty of all these resources.
If you just found out that you're pregnant and you're not sure what to do or where to turn, let Radis Adoptions talk it over with you. Abortion isn't the only alternative to parenting your child. Choosing adoption for your baby may make you sad in the short term, but in the long run it'll be the best choice for your baby and you'll come to realize it in time.